Honesty Versus Courtesy

Perhaps you are in agreement with me if I say that honesty to you is the base of all personal success, certain? As we are honest in our thoughts, declarations, actions, our relations will be more effective and would enjoy continuous well-being so that they are planted in fertile earth and with the stability that the truth provides. Courtesy is another manifestation that will have the result that we want in agreement our intensity. That is to say, the courtesy is one more a tool of our relations. It can be used with honorable intentions that contribute to the fortification of a relation or with intentions of evasion of a personal cause. " to be cortes" it is a quality very appreciated, especially when it comes from an authentic source. One feels well when we entered a Mall and they maintain the door to us with a smile. When we take passage in the highway and they correspond to us with a gesture of " Thanks! " or when we called to an office to make an appointment and we felt " that importamos" so that the person to the other side of the line I take care to deal with to us the best way. Now, What happens when a person that you know asks to you as you perceive its work or its person? In other words it asks to you that you give " to him; feedback" so that it has genuine desire to change what this not working. It has happened to you? What you have responded? You still served to him as the best way knowing than the information that you would give would put in risk your relation with or she? Ufff! This of " to offer opiniones" it is not simple thing so that until unconsciously it promotes a fear to (To lose, to shine badly, not to be opportune or assertive etc.).